So I try my hardest NOT to judge other people by their appearance which has served me pretty well my entire life. I guess being very skinny as a young child has always stuck with me.
There must me some written rule that women seem to have that says once you have a baby it is okay to be big or bigger than I was before I had the baby.
I was perfectly fine with this notion and wasn't expecting an amazing recovery after having my little girl.....
So here I am....Damned if I do...Damned if I don't
Women still seem to think its OKAY to comment when someone is SKINNY but it is not okay to comment when someone is FAT.
To save the embarrassment of the lovely ladies I hung out with on an overnight retreat I will spare them their pictures. But I kid you not the minute I was there I was told "wow you are really thin" ....to other side comments such as "push-up bra's, wonder-bras, you wouldn't understand because you are too thin" and the best is when I happened to say I liked chocolate fondue fountains.... "well of course you would because you are a waif, light as a feather"....
any of the above ever happened to you?
Thankfully being skinny is my problem...not yours so I guess all I need to say to them, or any other opening and brutally honest women "how would you like it if I commented on your weight every time I saw you?"
That's what I thought,
Now Ladies lets get back to reality EVERYONE has some sort of body issue....just don't blame yours on me!
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